By Victor Epand
 Life is short, unpredictable, eventful, uncharted, and totally happens as it will, which means that we should not get too comfortable, complacent, or take it for granted.
In fact, none of us knows what lies ahead, no matter how invincible we have convinced ourselves we are. There is much to be said on the subject of appreciating life, people, and what you have, but, today, we will merely touch on segments of this vast discussion. I think that we need constant reminders besides losing someone to keep us on course, and in gratitude for those in our lives.
When we learn to appreciate through loss, often it is too late, and we have ignored certain obligations to those whom we have lost. However, if we can learn to embrace each day and each person in our life in the now, in real time, then when loss does occur, then we might be more accepting, and certainly more comfortable in the healing process.
Each day we should start the day by letting those in our homes know how much we love them, before
we go our separate ways. Then in the course of the day, we should let those near us see the best of our character and personality, for it is really not fair that they should have to deal with more than an occasional outburst, or other forms of bad behavior.
Those we work with, those we play with, those we love, should only get the best of us. Yes, we all have our moments of bad behavior, but if we try then we can lessen these times, and lessen the impact. Too many people lash out all day long, taking their personal problems, impatience, and selfishness out on others, making everyone who comes into their contact suffer.
You see it is like a domino effect; Joe wakes up crabby, brushes off his family, goes to the office and begins the day by yelling at people, who then feel his harshness all day long. In turn, they might lash out at someone else, and when they get home they are irritable and high strung, which hurts the people closest to them.
If we could simply try to remember that one bad word, one attitude which is sour, one action which is uncalled for, affects many people in the course of the day, week, month, or year, then perhaps we could control our moods a bit better. Living with the best of yourself is an ongoing practice of control, attitude, and belief that positive mentality and actions reaps the most rewards. Negativity, of any kind, does nothing more than produce more negativity, and we all know that negativity dwells within, often creating more unnecessary troubles.
A positive mentality and action also creates a domino effect. This is an effect which produces good all the way around; it is fair, selfless, and considerate of other people, which breeds the same from those around us. It is true, you get what you give. The people around you deserve much better than a snotty, self consumed, irrational attitude and behavior from me, and I tell you, I certainly try to remember this at all times.
Yes, time has taught me this, mostly from being treated so badly at work, or from being around crabby, selfish people, but I have indeed, learned. The kind of person that does not have to make amends or excuses for their behavior, for you try each day to put the best of you forward that all in the world might embrace the person you are from deep inside and wear something sexy and sensual under your clothing will help you have a better outlook.
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